Told in Memory
Matthew 26:6-13
6Now
when Jesus was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper,
7a
woman came up to him with an alabaster flask of very expensive ointment, and
she poured it on his head as he reclined at table.
8And
when the disciples saw it, they were indignant, saying, “Why this waste?
9For
this could have been sold for a large sum and given to the poor.”
10But
Jesus, aware of this, said to them, “Why do you trouble the woman? For she has
done a beautiful thing to me.
11For
you always have the poor with you, but you will not always have me.
12In
pouring this ointment on my body, she has done it to prepare me for burial.
13Truly,
I say to you, wherever this gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she
has done will also be told in memory of her.”
As
the end of life draws near it is natural to want to spend that precious
remaining time with your beloved friends and family. Last weekend my
father-in-law was placed into Hospice care and even now family and friends are
gathering around this man to share moments with him that will not happen again.
He has always been a kind and gentle person with a quick smile and a vast
willingness to help out in any way that he could. So the list of people who
love him and want to share some time with him is long. While it is a sad time
it is also beautiful to see. In our reading for today we are watching as Jesus
spends His remaining time with those who love Him. Recorded in all four Gospels
is this story of “a woman” who anoints Jesus with nard. It is an easy story to
just pass over but to do that is a foolish waste of a great story.
“The
woman” in this story is identified by the other Gospel writers as Mary (as in
Mary, Martha, and Lazarus who were siblings). This family lived in the city of
Bethany which is just outside of Jerusalem. Jesus has recently raised Lazarus
from the dead and He and His disciples are welcomed into this home for a meal.
As the assembled group is enjoying one another’s company, Mary appears with an
alabaster jar that is filled with nard. These alabaster flasks were a “one time
use only” type of container. They were small and had a long skinny neck that
could be broken off. Once opened all of the oil had to be poured out as the
container was now destroyed. The flasks were sealed as nard was very expensive fragrant
oil created from the Valerianaceae plant grown in the foothills of the
Himalayas. The pure expense of this gift has led many to believe that that
family was probably a family of some means.
For
Jewish people there were two reasons to anoint a person; they were to become
the king or they had died. Jesus fits both of these categories. He had not yet
died but the circumstances of His death would prohibit the completion of that
custom after His actual death. Mary has taken care of Him in advance. The disciples, led apparently by
Judas this time, seem to think this is terrible waste of money. Other references
in the Gospel let us know that Judas was a thief and although he held the purse
for the group, he stuck his hand in there for his own benefit when it suited
him. This comment made about Mary’s gift shows a complete lack of understanding
and piously calls her out-pouring of love into question. Sadly the other
disciples appear to agree with him. Jesus proclaims this to be a “beautiful
thing” putting her actions into proper perspective and she is held in a place
of honor for her humble service to Jesus.
For
me Mary’s actions are so completely bold and humble in the same moment. Put
yourself into her shoes for a moment. The room is filled with people who know
and love Jesus. And the crowd is probably mostly male. Yet she humbles herself
in front of the whole group because Jesus is the most important person in the
entire world. She does not care what the others thought of her. After anointing
His head with the perfume she wipes Him off with her hair. A Jewish woman did not expose her long hair to the people; she
kept it up and probably hidden. She falls to her knees and then wipes that same
oil that is now in her hair on Jesus feet – in front of everyone. As the room is filled with the wonderful fragrance of this perfume, I doubt if
the cruel words of Judas had any impact upon her at all because for her the
only person in the room was Jesus. That kind of devotion does indeed inspire me
toward the same.
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